Obviously if you're with someone with substantial hair, you're gonna get the occasional one in the ol' wind pipe. But that's as far as the whole thing goes in terms of hardships, I think. Man C: It really doesn't. Man D: It only grosses me out if it's particularly unkempt, and I guess that's just a hygiene thing. It's weird to go down on a girl when you're probably rubbing your nose in a fucking jungle. Have you ever been totally turned off by the state of a partner's pubes?
Man A: Nope! Man B: No, but now I'm wondering what it would take for that to be the case. Man C: I had one partner that had so many ingrown hairs that it was essentially just one big rash down there.
Man D: There was this one hippie girl in college who was cute, the sort of girl who doesn't wear shoes to biology class. I remember when we were hooking up, I reached my hand down her weird hemp dungarees and just realized that, like, the entirety of her lower abdomen was so hairy. Like completely unmanicured from birth. Given her disposition, I guess I expected it, but it was still pretty gross.
Would you ever not have sex with someone because of her pubic hair? Man A: No! Maybe if they had gotten really weird with it Like dreads or something. I don't think that's a thing though. Man B: Nope. Man C: I can't imagine that being a huge factor. Man D: Nah, I don't think so. Would you ever not perform oral sex on someone because of her pubic hair?
Man A: Nope. Man C: Obviously I'm going to take hygiene into consideration. That's most important here. But hair alone doesn't matter. Man D: I probably just would try to avoid the subject unless she specifically asked, at that point, I'd probably suck it up. Do you consider maintaining pubic hair part of a normal grooming routine like shaving other stuff, or showering?
Man A: Yep! For myself, I mean. Man C: Yes, but I don't see it as a priority. Not in the same category as showering, at least. Man D: Yeah, I think so. I mean, it's all up to the person, I'm not going to fault someone if they don't want to shave their pubes. But I generally like it when I'm sleeping with people who do some yard work. Do you expect long-term partners to maintain pubes a certain way?
Man A: No. Man B: Nope, not really. I mean, I kind of keep mine trimmed down but that's more a comfort thing than anything. Man C: I've never had that conversation. I would hope that they take my preferences into consideration, but since I don't care too much about this, I would feel weird having any expectations. I mean, who wants pubes in your mouth when you're going down?
Aly Walansky is a NY-based lifestyles writer. Her work appears in dozens of digital and print publications regularly. Visit her on Twitter or email her at alywalansky gmail. Sign in. Join YourTango Experts. Photo: weheartit. Another popular one is that pubic hair keeps genitals clean and warm, and prevents unwanted foreign particles from entering the vagina. But, then again, that doesn't exactly explain why men have it.
What we do know is that having pubic hair is a sign of sexual maturity. I think any literature on pubic hair will tell you that. It's like life's big way of telling you, "Congratulations, you're all grown up now. Go have sex. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage? Not someone who's just hit puberty and is still figuring out what they want from their body.
I feel like pubic hair — well-manicured pubic hair — is like a rite of passage. You don't get it until you do and then you should own it. Ryder, 26, added, "It's always good to see a woman for what she really is — a woman.
I think a little hair is and mischievous. It says to me that she's confident in her sexuality to be her natural self and with that, to show off the things that make her most feminine. For her, it was way too much maintenance and for me I realized as we grew up I was way more into hair.
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